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In what is often considered a very complicated world, I lead a pretty simple life - purposely so. Somewhere in the pockets of its pants, I hope to make a positive difference with my actions and the good intentions which fuel them.
Welcome to my place in cyberspace. I created this blog as a forum for those near and far. I apologize for its impersonal nature, but in this quintessential, modern-day world rife with ironic technology, this forum seems to be a viable, (though hardly ideal), alternative for some form of communication when time factors conflict. As you kick back here, I hope you enjoy your visit; but keep in mind that no progression in technology can ever replace my yearnings for a more personal exhange. In the meantime, let's toast to you and your family's health, hope, and happiness. Thanks for letting me share with you.

Mar

Mar
Those red-headed Lucille Ball days!
Showing posts with label birthdays. Show all posts
Showing posts with label birthdays. Show all posts

Saturday, August 22, 2009

Tin-Tin Turned 21!!!!

Photo courtesy of Tin-Tin's Mom, Tammy. A couple weeks ago, we were fortunate to be among the many to celebrate Justin's special day. We all had such a great time reigning it in and all we hope for from this day forward is that he continues to enjoy his life, meets his self-actualization needs and dreams and that he remains safe, happy and well! We are so proud of you and love you dearly, Justin!!

Sunday, August 3, 2008

Mar's Milestone














It's official. I've hit a milestone and nothing was more special to me than to share it with those most dear to me, withstanding out-of-town family members who couldn't be here, but who play consistently equally important roles in my evolution. While I plan on personally thanking those who have shared my most recent journey with me and those who have helped build yet another cherished set of sacrosanct memories, I just wanted to post publicly, the enormous well of gratitude that my heart holds for those who made me feel so special and loved. I also want to post a most special, heartwarming thank you to my wise, wonderful and insanely beautiful Mom who coordinated all the delicious and eye-dancing details of the gathering which I will hold dear to my heart forever. Mom is one of the most kind, devoted, patient, tolerant, trustworthy, selfless and loving souls I know. Mom unwaveringly demonstrates her love with consistency and an unconditional nature, and because of that, I am priviledged to have her as my most sacred and cherished confidant and touchstone. That is all the gifts I'll ever need. I just can't give her enough props for all she does to make the world a better place to be in. I would also like to publicly acknowledge and thank my Dad for not only sponsoring the event, but for both privately and publicly expressing his pride and love for me. Coming from a man who doesn't wear his heart on his sleeve, this is a huge deal to me and the gravity of his demonstration will never, ever get lost on me. Also, big thanks to my west-coast bro, Mike, for taking pictures with the "real" camera!! ;-) and for making me laugh so hard my sides hurt. Your sense of humor always makes my day. And my gorgeous Auntie Lynn Dee has given me many, many loving and happy memories throughout my lifetime, and to have her continue to do so has left me feeling extremely humbled and grateful beyond measure (we all missed you, Uncle Howie;-) And having my beautiful cousin, Jacks, with her wonderful husband, Drue and their fabulously handsome son, Maddox join in the festivities was a incredibly special treat for me. I was also extremely touched that long-time friends and dearest souls, Christie and Ellie, took time out of their crazy-busy lives to share this special ocassion with me as did their endearing counterparts, Mark and Greg respectively speaking (great to meet you, Greg;-) My heart was also so warmed by the presence of Susan and Schloss, and of course, it's not soon enough to see them all again!! And last but never least, warm love to my longtime best pal, Dina, for all the years we've known and looked out for each other and the virtual family we've built together as its consequence. The absence of my other bro, Greg, his wife Elizabeth, Uncle Glenn, Aunt Deb, Aunt Nancy, and my dear cousins and their families from the west coast were palpable by all. We also missed my Aunt Lynda and Uncle Jim who called during our dinner to participate from afar but were inadvertently overshadowed by the awesome mariachi band and solo artist that started serenading me. :(sorry about that guys!!) But after many a conversation, we know all of you were there in spirit. It's obvious my words fall short of aptly expressing my gratitude, but please at least know how extremely blessed I feel to share our journeys through life together. It has been such a pleasure to do so and I hope we have many, many more positive memories to build. So thank you, thank you, thank you for your presence, sentiments and gifts!!

Most lovingly,

Mar ;-)


Thursday, May 1, 2008

Happy Birthday, Dad ;-)

Thank goodness for the new geneology website my cousin Dan found for all of us because it rocks with family birthday reminders. I try really hard to keep track of it all, but hey, let's face it, it can be touch. I tend to remember Dan's birthday with greater ease though because he was born the day my Dad was. Today, my father turned 69 years old, and I can't believe I'm even typing in those numbers because it's so hard for me to imagine my parents growing any older. At any rate, the picture you see of my Dad in the left-hand column of my blog is the photo that sort of epitomizes my father's sense of humor. We all know he's never smoked a day in his life but he hammed it up for the paparazzi with a poorly-puffed stogie because Dad does whatever he can for a laugh...even if the laugh is disingenous in nature. ;-) This is just his way. And after all these years, he is still a unique soul, perhaps a free soul, who for his whole life, has placed his family's needs before his own. And even though he knows his superpowers are limited, he is constantly concerned about protecting our health and welfare. While my father can sometimes be hard to understand, his loyalty, good intentions, and idiosyncratic expressions of love for his family are crystal clear to me. This is why I am dedicating these songs to my father who in all his 69 years of living, has never wavered in his quest to play - for his family and the industry he serves, the difficult roles of The Knight in Shining Armor, Superman, and the all-around everyday Hero.

Papa Si and Nana Kit

Papa Si and Nana Kit
Beloved, Talented and Inspirational

Mar's favorite childhood photo

Mar's favorite childhood photo
with the infamous thumb in her mouth;-)

Lil Mar & Papa Si

Lil Mar & Papa Si
Mar Loved and Safe in Papa Si's Midst

Nana Kit & Papa Si

Nana Kit & Papa Si
Spiritual Sources of Inspiration

The Friedman Pucker

The Friedman Pucker
Marla loving on her pal's baby canine

Mar's Clan

Mar's Clan

Marla and Greg

Marla and Greg
One of the many brothers we love dearly

Zin Mi (circa 1990)

Zin Mi (circa 1990)
Where it all began - well...sort of ;-)

BFF

BFF
D and Me at Lalos

Me & D all dolled up! ;-)

Best friends since 1990...

Oliver

Oliver
Waiting for his friend "food"

Every Day is Ma's Day

Every Day is Ma's Day

Dina & Mom L.

Dina & Mom L.

Camping 2007

Camping 2007

Mom S., Dina & Pops

Mom S., Dina & Pops

Grandpa Dean and Ryan

Grandpa Dean and Ryan

Mom L. & Her Girls

Mom L. & Her Girls

Dina...(on left) with Mar, Mom L., Susan, & Glennski

Dina...(on left) with Mar, Mom L., Susan, & Glennski
As a women's pro-tackle football player for the Chicago Force in their first season, Dina rocked it out...

Barb, Lynn, Papa Si, Nana Kit, Glenn

Barb, Lynn, Papa Si, Nana Kit, Glenn

Barbie, Glennski, and Lynn Dee

Barbie, Glennski, and Lynn Dee

Mom & Dad L.

Mom & Dad L.
Role Models

Glenn

Glenn

Reflective Glenn

Reflective Glenn
Our beloved uncle's photo captured by his devoted wife and our dear aunt, Deb.

GlennDebbski

GlennDebbski
July 2008

Smiling Glenn

Smiling Glenn

Glenn

Glenn
Kayaking, July 2008

Mom L. at 19

Mom L. at 19
"The Mami Lama" in bloom...

Mom S. at 19

Mom S. at 19

Once a dancer, always a dancer...

Marla circa 70s

Marla circa 70s
Logan Square and the Infamous Shaving Cream Fight

D

D
Stunning on scholarship award day...

Mom S. & Pops

Mom S. & Pops
Role Models

Justin & Brandon

Justin & Brandon
Our beloved, brilliant, and stunningly handsome nephews!

Mar's PB&J's

Mar's PB&J's
Justin, Marla, and Brandon

When Howie became our Uncle...

When Howie became our Uncle...
Auntie Lynn and Uncle Howie's Wedding Day

Auntie Lynn and Uncle Howie

Auntie Lynn and Uncle Howie
Doing one of their many favorite things together

Howie and Lynn

Howie and Lynn
LOVE them!!!

Mar's Uncle Jim

Mar's Uncle Jim
Holding his Grandson, Maddox

GlennDebbie

GlennDebbie
2 people, 1 soul...

Debbski and Glennski

Debbski and Glennski

Mar, Glenn & Dina

Mar, Glenn & Dina

Mar & Her Auntie Lynn

Mar & Her Auntie Lynn

Aunt Nancy

Aunt Nancy
Proud Grandma with first Grandson JZ

Angels on Earth

Angels on Earth
Kaitlyn and Michele

StudyBug JZ

StudyBug JZ

Jim, Jeanne and Grandson, Maddox

Jim, Jeanne and Grandson, Maddox

Jacks and Drue

Jacks and Drue
Awesome Cousins

Maddy at 3 months!

Maddy at 3 months!
What a smile! Look at those yummy little piggies!

Maddox

Maddox
OK...can Maddy be any cuter?? OMG what an adorable little fella he is!!!

Cutie-Pies!

Cutie-Pies!

Aunt Barb and Kaitlyn

Aunt Barb and Kaitlyn

Deb & Dina!

Deb & Dina!
How did we get so lucky?

Mom L. and Aunt Lynda

Mom L. and Aunt Lynda

Lynda and Jim

Lynda and Jim
Holiday Photo 2007

Uncle Jim and Aunt Lynda

Uncle Jim and Aunt Lynda
Far Away in Body, Close in Heart and Mind

Sharing a Laugh

Sharing a Laugh
Dad L with Glenn and his grandaughter, Kaitlyn...

Awesome Gal Pals

Awesome Gal Pals

Glenn and Debbie

Glenn and Debbie

Holiday 2007

Holiday 2007
Randy, Lori, Hunter, Hayden, Isabella and Delaney

Holiday 2007

Holiday 2007
Michelle, Michael, Jennie, Kaitlyn

Holiday 2007

Holiday 2007
Ryan, Casey, Kyle, Shane, Drew

Casey, Kyle, Shane, Ryan & Drew

Casey, Kyle, Shane, Ryan & Drew
Photograph provided by their Mom, Denise Stroh

Dina & her Wonderful Cousin, Angela

Aunt Mary Ann and Cousin Angela

Cutie-Pies Kaitlyn and Michelle!!!

Randy and Lori's Beautiful Brood

Our Nephew, Hunter

Our Nephew, Hunter
A silhouette of our nephew who is actually shooting-star bright!

Our Nephew, Hayden

Our Nephew, Hayden
Like his sis, Bella, Hayden is a talented artist and wise beyond his years

Our bright, brave and beautiful nieces

Our bright, brave and beautiful nieces
Writer and Artist, Bella and Superstar-in-the-Making, Delaney!

Bro, Adam and Sis-in-Law, Tammy

Bro, Adam and Sis-in-Law, Tammy
No mid-life crisis here, people....just makes 40 look easy.

Our nephew, Justin

Our nephew, Justin
Future Biology Professor

Our nephew, Brandon

Our nephew, Brandon
Future Special Education Professor

Bright, talented and athletic nephews, Kyle, Drew, Ryan, Shane and Casey

Bright, talented and athletic nephews, Kyle, Drew, Ryan, Shane and Casey
We love & miss Rory and Denise's boys immensly!

Cynthia, her Mom, and Kenny

Cynthia, her Mom, and Kenny
Another great 4th of July barbeque...

Dina's Aunt Cynthia

Dina's Aunt Cynthia
Current East Bank Club Yoga Teacher and Former UIC Director of Physical Therapy now enjoying her well-deserved retirement! She is the quintessential hostess for our fourth of July barbeques too!

Marvelous Michelle ;-)

Marvelous Michelle ;-)
So special, bright and beautiful!!!

Sweet Cousin, Kaitlyn

Sweet Cousin, Kaitlyn
The Paragon of Precocity

Dan and Jessica

Dan and Jessica
Beautiful newlyweds in love...

JZ

JZ
John Zacharias, Scene Stealer Extraordinaire

Laura and Mike

Laura and Mike
United in Marriage and Spiritually One

Mar's buddy, TJ

Mar's buddy, TJ
Traffic Reporter, fellow ERT/MRC Volunteer, and all around GREAT GUY!

Ellie

Ellie
Our cherished, longtime, loving, and devoted family friend

Mark and Christie

Mark and Christie
Our cherished, longtime, loving and devoted family friends

Susan

Susan
Caring and devoted family friend

Baby Addison ;-)

Baby Addison ;-)
Our pal Mike, his beautiful wife, Carrie and their firstborn, Addison Paige!

Joshua...

Joshua...
Our pal Jodi's son and Mar's special little guy! ;-)

Marla

Marla