In a Zen state-of-mind

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In what is often considered a very complicated world, I lead a pretty simple life - purposely so. Somewhere in the pockets of its pants, I hope to make a positive difference with my actions and the good intentions which fuel them.
Welcome to my place in cyberspace. I created this blog as a forum for those near and far. I apologize for its impersonal nature, but in this quintessential, modern-day world rife with ironic technology, this forum seems to be a viable, (though hardly ideal), alternative for some form of communication when time factors conflict. As you kick back here, I hope you enjoy your visit; but keep in mind that no progression in technology can ever replace my yearnings for a more personal exhange. In the meantime, let's toast to you and your family's health, hope, and happiness. Thanks for letting me share with you.

Mar

Mar
Those red-headed Lucille Ball days!

Friday, November 14, 2008

Let's Kick the !@#$%! out of this -----'s A--!!!!













Pops, The Stroh Patriarch

We posted these poems here to demonstrate the range and nature of our emotions as we stand together and behind you as you stand in the arena to fight and win the greatest challenge of your life. It expresses how precious you are to the both of us and to all your family and friends.

With deepest, dearest love,
Your daughters,
MarlaDina

Only A Dad

by Edgar A. Guest

Only a dad with a tired face, Coming home from the daily race, Bringing little of gold or fame, To show how well he has played the game; But glad in his heart that his own rejoice, To see him come and to hear his voice.
Only a dad with a brood of four, One of ten million men or more, Plodding along in the daily strife, Bearing the whips and the scorns of life, With never a whimper of pain or hate, For the sake of those who at home await.
Only a dad, neither rich nor proud, Merely one of the surging crowd, Toiling, striving from day to day, Facing whatever may come his way, Silent whenever the harsh condemn, And bearing it all for the love of them.
Only a dad but he gives his all, To smooth the way for his children small, Doing with courage stern and grim, The deeds that his father did for him. This is the line that for him I pen: Only a dad, but the best of men.

My Hero
by Debbie Hinton Young

As I ponder the love that I saw in his eyes, A Godly love, given without compromise; I recall many times that he stood by my side, And prodded me on with great vigor and pride. His voice ever confident, firm and yet fair, Always speaking with patience, tenderness and care. The power and might of his hands was so sure, I knew there was nothing we couldn't endure. It's true, a few others provided insight,Yet, he laid the foundation that kept me upright. He's the grandest of men to have lived on this earth, although he's not royal by stature or birth. He's a man of great dignity, honor and strength. His merits are noble, and of admirable length. He's far greater than all other men that I know, He's my Dad, he's my mentor, my friend and hero.

Quite A Hero
Author Unknown

My Hero is the quiet type, No marching bands, no media hype. But through my eyes it's plain to see, a hero, God has sent to me. With gentle strength and quiet pride, All self concern is set aside, To reach out to our fellow man, And be there with a helping hand. Heroes are a rarity, A blessing to humanity.With all they give and all they do, I'll bet the thing you never knew, My quiet hero has always been you.



















Papa Si and Nana Kit

Papa Si and Nana Kit
Beloved, Talented and Inspirational

Mar's favorite childhood photo

Mar's favorite childhood photo
with the infamous thumb in her mouth;-)

Lil Mar & Papa Si

Lil Mar & Papa Si
Mar Loved and Safe in Papa Si's Midst

Nana Kit & Papa Si

Nana Kit & Papa Si
Spiritual Sources of Inspiration

The Friedman Pucker

The Friedman Pucker
Marla loving on her pal's baby canine

Mar's Clan

Mar's Clan

Marla and Greg

Marla and Greg
One of the many brothers we love dearly

Zin Mi (circa 1990)

Zin Mi (circa 1990)
Where it all began - well...sort of ;-)

BFF

BFF
D and Me at Lalos

Me & D all dolled up! ;-)

Best friends since 1990...

Oliver

Oliver
Waiting for his friend "food"

Every Day is Ma's Day

Every Day is Ma's Day

Dina & Mom L.

Dina & Mom L.

Camping 2007

Camping 2007

Mom S., Dina & Pops

Mom S., Dina & Pops

Grandpa Dean and Ryan

Grandpa Dean and Ryan

Mom L. & Her Girls

Mom L. & Her Girls

Dina...(on left) with Mar, Mom L., Susan, & Glennski

Dina...(on left) with Mar, Mom L., Susan, & Glennski
As a women's pro-tackle football player for the Chicago Force in their first season, Dina rocked it out...

Barb, Lynn, Papa Si, Nana Kit, Glenn

Barb, Lynn, Papa Si, Nana Kit, Glenn

Barbie, Glennski, and Lynn Dee

Barbie, Glennski, and Lynn Dee

Mom & Dad L.

Mom & Dad L.
Role Models

Glenn

Glenn

Reflective Glenn

Reflective Glenn
Our beloved uncle's photo captured by his devoted wife and our dear aunt, Deb.

GlennDebbski

GlennDebbski
July 2008

Smiling Glenn

Smiling Glenn

Glenn

Glenn
Kayaking, July 2008

Mom L. at 19

Mom L. at 19
"The Mami Lama" in bloom...

Mom S. at 19

Mom S. at 19

Once a dancer, always a dancer...

Marla circa 70s

Marla circa 70s
Logan Square and the Infamous Shaving Cream Fight

D

D
Stunning on scholarship award day...

Mom S. & Pops

Mom S. & Pops
Role Models

Justin & Brandon

Justin & Brandon
Our beloved, brilliant, and stunningly handsome nephews!

Mar's PB&J's

Mar's PB&J's
Justin, Marla, and Brandon

When Howie became our Uncle...

When Howie became our Uncle...
Auntie Lynn and Uncle Howie's Wedding Day

Auntie Lynn and Uncle Howie

Auntie Lynn and Uncle Howie
Doing one of their many favorite things together

Howie and Lynn

Howie and Lynn
LOVE them!!!

Mar's Uncle Jim

Mar's Uncle Jim
Holding his Grandson, Maddox

GlennDebbie

GlennDebbie
2 people, 1 soul...

Debbski and Glennski

Debbski and Glennski

Mar, Glenn & Dina

Mar, Glenn & Dina

Mar & Her Auntie Lynn

Mar & Her Auntie Lynn

Aunt Nancy

Aunt Nancy
Proud Grandma with first Grandson JZ

Angels on Earth

Angels on Earth
Kaitlyn and Michele

StudyBug JZ

StudyBug JZ

Jim, Jeanne and Grandson, Maddox

Jim, Jeanne and Grandson, Maddox

Jacks and Drue

Jacks and Drue
Awesome Cousins

Maddy at 3 months!

Maddy at 3 months!
What a smile! Look at those yummy little piggies!

Maddox

Maddox
OK...can Maddy be any cuter?? OMG what an adorable little fella he is!!!

Cutie-Pies!

Cutie-Pies!

Aunt Barb and Kaitlyn

Aunt Barb and Kaitlyn

Deb & Dina!

Deb & Dina!
How did we get so lucky?

Mom L. and Aunt Lynda

Mom L. and Aunt Lynda

Lynda and Jim

Lynda and Jim
Holiday Photo 2007

Uncle Jim and Aunt Lynda

Uncle Jim and Aunt Lynda
Far Away in Body, Close in Heart and Mind

Sharing a Laugh

Sharing a Laugh
Dad L with Glenn and his grandaughter, Kaitlyn...

Awesome Gal Pals

Awesome Gal Pals

Glenn and Debbie

Glenn and Debbie

Holiday 2007

Holiday 2007
Randy, Lori, Hunter, Hayden, Isabella and Delaney

Holiday 2007

Holiday 2007
Michelle, Michael, Jennie, Kaitlyn

Holiday 2007

Holiday 2007
Ryan, Casey, Kyle, Shane, Drew

Casey, Kyle, Shane, Ryan & Drew

Casey, Kyle, Shane, Ryan & Drew
Photograph provided by their Mom, Denise Stroh

Dina & her Wonderful Cousin, Angela

Aunt Mary Ann and Cousin Angela

Cutie-Pies Kaitlyn and Michelle!!!

Randy and Lori's Beautiful Brood

Our Nephew, Hunter

Our Nephew, Hunter
A silhouette of our nephew who is actually shooting-star bright!

Our Nephew, Hayden

Our Nephew, Hayden
Like his sis, Bella, Hayden is a talented artist and wise beyond his years

Our bright, brave and beautiful nieces

Our bright, brave and beautiful nieces
Writer and Artist, Bella and Superstar-in-the-Making, Delaney!

Bro, Adam and Sis-in-Law, Tammy

Bro, Adam and Sis-in-Law, Tammy
No mid-life crisis here, people....just makes 40 look easy.

Our nephew, Justin

Our nephew, Justin
Future Biology Professor

Our nephew, Brandon

Our nephew, Brandon
Future Special Education Professor

Bright, talented and athletic nephews, Kyle, Drew, Ryan, Shane and Casey

Bright, talented and athletic nephews, Kyle, Drew, Ryan, Shane and Casey
We love & miss Rory and Denise's boys immensly!

Cynthia, her Mom, and Kenny

Cynthia, her Mom, and Kenny
Another great 4th of July barbeque...

Dina's Aunt Cynthia

Dina's Aunt Cynthia
Current East Bank Club Yoga Teacher and Former UIC Director of Physical Therapy now enjoying her well-deserved retirement! She is the quintessential hostess for our fourth of July barbeques too!

Marvelous Michelle ;-)

Marvelous Michelle ;-)
So special, bright and beautiful!!!

Sweet Cousin, Kaitlyn

Sweet Cousin, Kaitlyn
The Paragon of Precocity

Dan and Jessica

Dan and Jessica
Beautiful newlyweds in love...

JZ

JZ
John Zacharias, Scene Stealer Extraordinaire

Laura and Mike

Laura and Mike
United in Marriage and Spiritually One

Mar's buddy, TJ

Mar's buddy, TJ
Traffic Reporter, fellow ERT/MRC Volunteer, and all around GREAT GUY!

Ellie

Ellie
Our cherished, longtime, loving, and devoted family friend

Mark and Christie

Mark and Christie
Our cherished, longtime, loving and devoted family friends

Susan

Susan
Caring and devoted family friend

Baby Addison ;-)

Baby Addison ;-)
Our pal Mike, his beautiful wife, Carrie and their firstborn, Addison Paige!

Joshua...

Joshua...
Our pal Jodi's son and Mar's special little guy! ;-)

Marla

Marla